Running with Scissors

What if being “low maintenance” isn’t actually a personality trait… but something you learned to become?
In this episode of Running with Scissors, we’re unpacking the hidden cost of always being the easy one.. the person who doesn’t ask for much, doesn’t complain, doesn’t need help, and is always “fine.”
Because there’s a difference between being independent and constantly shrinking your needs to avoid being difficult. Because being easy to love shouldn’t mean being easy to overlook.
💭 Are you genuinely low maintenance… or have you just gotten really good at not asking for anything?
🎙️ Welcome to Running with Scissors... real conversations about relationships, identity, psychology, and the messy parts of becoming an adult.

It's Lauri's birthday! 🥳
So instead of the usual birthday episode, Lauri decided to put our friendship to the ultimate test...
She asked me 26 questions about herself to see just how well I actually know my best friend. From favourite foods and random habits to impossible questions. 😂
Happy Birthday, Lauri! ❤️

Why is it so hard to let certain people go?
 
In this episode of Running with Scissors, we're unpacking three relationship traps that keep us emotionally stuck:
• The difference between love and validation• Why closure doesn't always come• Falling in love with someone's potential instead of who they really are
 
Sometimes we don't miss the person, we miss how they made us feel about ourselves. We chase closure that never arrives, convince ourselves they'll eventually become the person we need, and mistake emotional highs for genuine love.
 
If you've ever found yourself unable to move on, this conversation might explain why.

We spend so much time waiting for the "right time".. more confidence, more motivation, more certainty.
But what if your future self isn't coming to save you?
In this episode of Running with Scissors, we unpack why waiting keeps us stuck, why confidence comes from action, and how the smallest decisions today shape the person you become tomorrow.
💬 What's one thing you've been leaving for "future you"?

Everyone wants to become her.
 
The confident one. The disciplined one. The successful one. The girl with the perfect routine, wardrobe, body, relationship and life.
But what if becoming her has very little to do with any of that?
 
In this episode, we're talking about the difference between changing your life on the outside and transforming it from the inside. We unpack why external validation, aesthetics and productivity can only take you so far and why real confidence is built through the quiet work nobody sees.
 
If you've ever felt like you're doing everything "right" but still don't feel like the person you're trying to become, this conversation is for you.
 

Fear rarely looks like fear.
It shows up as procrastination, perfectionism, overthinking, people-pleasing, or staying where it's comfortable.
In this episode, we unpack the fear behind the fear, the deeper beliefs hiding beneath fears like failure, judgement, success and disappointing others. We also get vulnerable about the fears we've experienced in business and how we're learning to move forward despite them.
Sometimes understanding the real fear is the first step towards freedom.

✨ Consider yourself influenced.
In this episode of Running With Scissors, we're sharing our current obsessions; from food, drinks, fashion and beauty favourites to hobbies, habits, and the random things we can't stop talking about.
 
If you love discovering new things, hearing honest recommendations, or just enjoy listening to friends go down completely unnecessary rabbit holes, you'll fit right in.
 
💬 What are YOU currently obsessed with? Let us know in the comments.
 
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We disappeared for a little while… but we’re back 👀
Season 5 starts with a life update, a few plot twists, and a lot of things we probably didn’t need to debate — including some very questionable Would You Rather scenarios.
Expect random opinions, unnecessary confidence, and the kind of conversations that somehow go from deep life updates to fighting ducks and horses.
Welcome back to Running With Scissors 💖

Entering my 26 era ✨
 
In this birthday episode, Danelle is sharing her “Before 27” list — not big scary goals, just cute, joyful things that will make this year feel special, cozy, and memorable 🌸
 
Consider this your permission slip to romanticise your life a little. 

This episode is a full-circle moment.
 
One year ago, we started Running With Scissors with nothing but an idea and a lot of nerves. Today, we’re reflecting on everything this podcast has taught us — about creativity, confidence, friendship, and showing up even when you don’t feel ready.
 
We’re sharing the lessons, the unexpected wins, the hard parts, and the advice we’d give our past selves.
 
Thank you for listening, supporting, and growing with us 🤍This podcast wouldn’t be the same without you.